My vision after reading Nadalette La Fonta's book, "Our storms are as high as our dreams". I finished reading this book about 2 months ago. It's a shock, it's a slap in the face and it feels good to be in this state of shock after reading it. It took me by the hand and gave me a rereading through the eyes of Nadalette La Fonta who was living a strong experience, a rereading for me of a past not forgotten, but well and truly archived and that I minimized. My ordeal was in 1978 and lasted 6 years. I went through the stages of this mourning, alone, without putting any particular names on it, except for the fact that I could breathe and cry less and less. Each chapter had an echo for my life, my experience and this path towards wisdom that I have been following since that time, sometimes it is simple, sometimes it is complicated, often it seemed impossible to cross. This reading has been like glasses put on to read my life, to put on these words lived with the unconsciousness of youth, and these words have become feelings, and steps to live a fulfilled and globally very happy life. Nadalette La Fonta has given me a ray of sunshine that makes dreams germinate, evolution, growth, and also and above all, the Being that I am, the eternal one that does not always manifest itself and not at the right time, but above all, the one that I am in spite of everything! Each chapter was like a major or minor chord in the symphony that is my life. I have heard the overall harmonies as well as the pizzicatos of the details of my life. And sooner or later, consciously or unconsciously, we all experience these trials (who doesn't) big or small but especially that we consider them as BIG despite a story to tell that is not "that serious anyway" we often think, especially if we compare with other trials visibly more serious. When we want to take a good look at it, we have something to be aware of, to live and to turn into an attainable dream all that we reject, that we cover up, that we deny. Denying one's pain, one's sorrow, one's suffering is a step, but one must move on, and it is a chance if this pain is not easily overcome. Understanding is also a step that leads to a daily welcoming of what is difficult to grasp mentally but which "inside" or "in the gut" is so constructive and makes life so serene! * It is all this, in bulk and much more, that Nadalette La Fonta and her book "Our storms are as high as our dreams" can bring to everyone, because as we each have eyes, arms, legs, a heart, a brain, we all go through what she went through, in a different way and we can make this experience, a brick that builds us and allows us to stand up straight! Thank you Nadalette for this gift of life that I received from you!